Jacqui
Beck, 19, has MRKH, an rare syndrome which affects the reproductive system -
meaning she has no womb, cervix or vaginal opening. She
was diagnosed when she was 17, after she went to her GP about back pain - and
mentioned in passing that she hadn't started her periods.
Tests
revealed her condition and that where her vagina should be, there is simply an
ident, or 'dimple' - meaning she is unable to have sex or carry her own child.
Women
with the condition appear completely normal externally - which means it is
usually not discovered until a woman tries to have sex, or has not had her
first period. Beck,
from the Isle of Wight, admits when she was first diagnosed, she felt 'like a
freak'.
'I'd
never considered myself different from other women and the news was so
shocking, I couldn't believe what I was hearing.
I was sure the doctor had got it
wrong, but when she explained that was why I wasn’t having periods, it all
started to make sense.
‘She
then explained that I would never be able to carry a child and might have to
have surgery before I could have sex. I
left the doctors in tears - I would never know what it was like to give birth,
be pregnant, have a period. All the things I had imagined doing suddenly got
erased from my future.
'I
was really angry and felt like I wasn’t a real woman any more.'
Beck
was admitted to the Queen Charlotte and Chelsea Hospital in London, which
specialises in the condition, where she was given dilation treatment, which
involved using different sized dilators to try and stretch her vaginal canal -
but was told if it didn’t work, she would have to be operated on.
She
said: ‘I spent two days there, getting taught how to use the dilator and
learning more about MRKH.
‘The
first time the nurse showed me how to use a dilator I nearly died of
embarrassment. But now I've got used to it, I see it as any other form of treatment.
‘At
the hospital, they referred me to a network of other women who have the same
condition. It was great to speak to other girls who felt like me. I
stopped feeling so lonely and it also gave me hope as I spoke to women who had
gone on to have a full sex life.’
Thankfully,
her treatment has worked and if she continues she will not need surgery and
when she chooses to, will be able to have intercourse.
How saad. There's nothing we won't see. Such a pretty girl
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