WOULD YOU TELL YOUR FIANCE IF YOU'VE HAD ABORTION(S) IN THE PAST?

Reader's mail;

There is this guy I am engaged to. When we met, we told each other our pasts. Unknown to him, I did not tell him all – I left out my deepest secrets, the series of abortions I had go through right from my college days. I feel insecure with him as he sees abortion as a disgusting act and he even talks about the way he condemned his friend’s gf that went through the process recently. Now, I am in a dilemma….I don’t want to lose him, I don’t want to tell him, but I feel uneasy with him because I am keeping him in the dark. What should I do?