I found this on a blog and decided to share with you guys.
It's quite hilarious. I know it shouldn't be funny 'cos this is someone's
dilemma, but...*stiffledlaugh*. Read below;
I’m happily married with two young kids ages 2 and 4. We stay
in a 2-bedroom apartment and usually leave the connecting door ajar so that if
the kids wake up during the night they may have access to our room to seek
comfort, which is very frequent especially during these noisy thunder storms.
My problem started with the arrival of my mother-in-law, less
than a week ago to spend 2 months. Of course, she sleeps with her grand kids in
their room. This doesn’t stop them from frequenting our room during the night,
so the door is still left ajar. Much to my amazement, my wife has now told me
that she will no longer allow us to copulate during the time her mother is with
us. She said her mum scolded her and feels we are rude to engage in lovemaking
knowing fully well that she is in the adjoining room.
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My wife has always feared her mum so it is impossible for me
to convince her that this is her house, not her mum’s. I don’t see myself going
one week without sex, talk less of 2 months! Is it my fault that the bed creaks
or that my wife has to make noise at her height of ecstasy? I feel that my
mother-in-law is being very intrusive and insensitive and I’m prepared to talk
to her and ask her to leave if she insists on tormenting my wife, but I know
that my wife won’t find it funny at all. What should I do?
What advise will you give this young man?
I'm with the wife on this. If your mother scolds you for having sex with her in the house, that should tell you that she can hear you from her room. So u either keep it down, or wait till she leaves.
ReplyDeleteNo way! There has to be a way round this. Maybe shutting the door and changing the bed that creaks will help, or doing it on the floor. Your kids don't need to be running to you now that there's an adult with them in the room. So, shut the door!!! And get on with it!
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