When it
comes to dating and choosing a mate, it’s only natural to want the
approval of those closest to you. You know how it goes: You’re dating a
great guy (or so you think) and you want to introduce him to your
friends and family to get their take on the new person in your life. You
hope they like him because you’ve already managed to fall for him. But
what happens if, when that monumental moment happens, they hate him? Do
you dump him or do you keep dating him because they obviously don’t see
what you see? It can be a difficult choice, which brings me to this
question: How many of you care what other people think – friends or
family, or society in general – about the person you date/love? How much
influence do others have on who you date, love or marry? - See more at:
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You know how it is, you think you’re dating a great guy and
you want to introduce him to your friends and family to get their take on the
new person in your life, silently praying and hoping they like him because
you’re already falling for him.
So, let me ask, what happens if they don’t approve of him?
Do you dump him or do you keep dating him because they obviously don’t see what
you see? It brings me to ask, do you or should you care what other people think
about the person you’re dating? Ladies... and gents too... pls share your thoughts.
Wat's anybody's business wit whom I decide 2 date? 4 me,b4 I accept 2 date a guy,I must rily lyk n b proud of him,I'm d one dat chose 2 b wit him,I'm d one dat's goin 2 b in d relationship,I'm d one dat matters.if ur heart accepts him den u shud move on wit him,its only if u r nt sure of him dat u care abt wat pple say/tink. Besides,I dnt discuss my relationship wit pple b4 dey advice me wrongly. Wat matters most is if I'm happy.
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Well, it really, really shouldn't. As long as the person ignites in you that which you want to be ignited, then it shouldn't matter to you what your friends think......... But! A friend of mine just made me realise something. Love can make us blind to some things we should be wary of. If your friends do not approve of the person you are with, it's possibly because they are seeing something you aren't seeing. So, while I'll say, my friends' opinions abt my man doesn't matter to me, I'll also be quick to say, I'll weigh my friends' opinions before I discard them as irrelevant.
ReplyDeleteit rili matters dear frnds, one cnt know all. ur eyes mit b closed to some important tins cos u claim ure in luv while ur frnds and family cn c. i'll therefore advise one weighs evry thing sed concerning ones boyfrnd or girlfrnd b4 proceeding.
ReplyDeleteI'm personally a good judge of character, so I won't be needing the opinion of my friends and family except my parents.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous @10:21 - Really?? Lucky you then.
ReplyDeleteto anonymous 10.21,i cn c u no evryfin bt am just wondering y u went 2 school nd nt just sit with ur folks @ hme.
ReplyDeleteA anon 10:36 What's your beef? I don't know everything but I don't need to go to school to be able to study people. people give off who they really are knowingly or unknowingly, it's left to you to be observant enough to read and understand who they are and their character. I guess you just relate with everybody without bothering to study them to know who you're friends with that you have to rely on others to do it for you. smh.
ReplyDeleteA anon 10:36 What's your beef? I don't know everything but I don't need to go to school to be able to study people. people give off who they really are knowingly or unknowingly, it's left to you to be observant enough to read and understand who they are and their character. I guess you just relate with everybody without bothering to study them to know who you're friends with that you have to rely on others to do it for you. smh.
ReplyDeleteA anon 10:36 What's your beef? I don't know everything but I don't need to go to school to be able to study people. people give off who they really are knowingly or unknowingly, it's left to you to be observant enough to read and understand who they are and their character. I guess you just relate with everybody without bothering to study them to know who you're friends with that you have to rely on others to do it for you. smh.
ReplyDelete@ anon 10.51 u shd av just stayed with ur parent nd not go to school or instead not have frnds.y do you ask your frnds aw you look if their opinions do not count? i guess ure just in2 a relationship.ur just a BABY dt needs to grow up!
ReplyDeleteNo need for d argument. Ur friends may b able to c wat u can't c or may b wat u choice to ignore or ur just comfortable with.bt I believe b4 lovin someone u must v seen something u like in he/she.bt again just as d sayin goes all dat glitters is nt gold so u cud listen to ur freinds or just follow ur heart either way do wat make u hapi coz ur d one in it bt do it wisely coz no single person knws all or sees all.
ReplyDelete@ anon 12:29 do you also ask your friends what you should eat? You seem to be the one who is so dependent and sounds like a baby.
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ReplyDelete@anon13.58 what is wrong with asking my frnds what is healthy to eat and what is not healthy to eat? i dnt know it all lke you, i wanna learn so i ask questions unlike you who feels 'i know it all'.
ReplyDelete@ anon 14:49 do you understand English at all? Being a good judge of character isn't the same as knowing it all. I'm done arguing with you. All I just wanted to point out is that I am a good judge of character and would rather trust the opinion of my parents than friends. Friends have been known to wash down your man so they can try and take over, been there.
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